Tuesday, April 29, 2014

Just Some of the Blessings of Marriage



“The full realization of the blessings of a temple marriage is almost beyond our mortal comprehension. Such a marriage will continue to grow in the celestial realm. There we can become perfected.” – Elder Russell M. Nelson

I never thought much on the aspects of eternity growing up. It was one of those things that made my mind want to explode if I tried to understand it. It wasn’t until my fiancĂ© and I started talking about marriage while we were dating that I finally began to understand it a little bit more. I get to be with someone I love forever. I get to be with my family forever. It’s such an amazing and special gift that each of us will have.

I think of the love I have for my fiancĂ© and current/future family and it just blows my mind that Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ have an even greater love for each of us. Entering the Celestial Kingdom, to me, means being able to love with that same capacity. It’s no wonder we become perfected together when we finally get there.

“I believe in marriage.” – Elder Boyd K. Packer

Being sealed in the temple with someone who is worthy is the most important decision we will make. You are not just committing to someone, but you are committing to someone for eternity.
           
Believing in marriage is looking your spouse in the eye and saying, “loving you is something I want to do forever.” It’s not just an, ‘I want to be with you, ‘ it’s an, ‘I need to be with you.’

Believing in marriage is knowing and wanting there to be times of trouble. If there aren’t, then what kind of life and marriage is that? But it’s not fighting in times of stress, it’s fighting yourself to be the best that your spouse deserves.

Believing in marriage is the ultimate happiness. It’s the ultimate comfort. If you think about it, getting to the Celestial Kingdom really doesn’t need to be that difficult. You get baptized, receive the Holy Ghost, make Temple covenants, and endure to the end. You get to enter the Celestial Kingdom because you followed the things that bring us joy.            

Believing in marriage is knowing that Heavenly Father has entrusted us with an incredibly special and scared gift. He has told us that He wants us to love His children. He has entrusted us with the opportunity to be sealed to someone of our choice and, with that person, bring children into this world.

Believing in marriage is believing in Heavenly Father and His plan. It’s believing Jesus Christ. It’s believing in the Holy Ghost and personal revelation. It’s believing in the one we choose to spend eternity with. It’s believing in our families. It’s believing in ourselves.  

Avec Amour, 

Elisse